Do's
- Be outgoing! Talk to people meet as many people as you can during this time. Now is not the time to by shy (because half the group will be). You will thank yourself the rest of the year. Many people limit their friendships because they aren't outgoing and they miss out!
- Have a FaceBook or AIM account AND texting. College kids barely talk on the phone, they communicate and get to know people via these social sites. FaceBook is a great way to connect with people you just met and stay in touch with them. AIM and texting are the ways freshmen talk with each other!
- Go to at least half of the scheduled events for orientation. Again, a great way to meet everyone and make friends! Now, nobody goes to all the events and thats totally fine. But if you skip it you miss out!
Don't
- Drink the first weekend you are there. Face it. You don't know how to get away with drinking, and as an RA on higher alert (trust me, I have been an RA for 2 1/2 years).
- If you decide to drink go slow- you might not know your limit and that leads to all kinds of troubles.
- Trust your gut- don't hang out with people that make you uncomfortable or try to get you to do things you don't want to. There are plenty of people at college that will not peer pressure you- find them!
Hope these help!
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